Death & Dying vs Grief

February 18, 2023

Sit with Sharon and Erica as they share their experience of caring for someone with illness and the grief that happens after the death. 

Experiencing a long-term illness and caring for a loved one can be one of the most difficult and emotional experiences one can go through. As a caregiver, you may have spent weeks, months, or even years, tending to your loved one’s needs, providing them with physical, emotional, and spiritual support. Your life may have revolved around their care, leaving little time or energy for anything else.
After your loved one passes away, the sudden absence of their presence can feel overwhelming. Along with the grief and pain of losing someone close to you, you may also experience a sense of emptiness and loss of purpose that comes from the end of your caregiving journey.

As a caregiver, your routine may have revolved around your loved one’s needs. You may have spent countless hours providing care, running errands, and attending appointments. Now that your caregiving role has ended, it can be challenging to adjust to a new routine and figure out how to fill the hours that were once dedicated to your loved one’s care.

In addition, the stress and exhaustion of caring for a loved one can leave you feeling physically and emotionally drained. It’s not uncommon for caregivers to experience burnout and other health issues as a result of the physical and emotional demands of their role. After your loved one passes away, you may find yourself struggling to regain your energy and take care of your own needs.
All of these factors can contribute to a sense of loss and grief after the passing of a loved one. You may find yourself struggling to come to terms with the fact that your caregiving journey has come to an end, and that you must now adjust to a new normal without your loved one.

It’s important to remember that grief is a natural and necessary part of the healing process. You may experience a range of emotions, from sadness and anger to guilt and regret. Allow yourself to feel these emotions and seek support from loved ones or a professional counselor if needed.

While the loss of your caregiving role may feel overwhelming, it’s important to recognize that you still have value and purpose in the world. Take time to reflect on your own needs and interests, and consider how you can use your experiences to help others who may be going through a similar journey.
Remember that it’s okay to take things one day at a time and to focus on self-care during this difficult time. Be patient with yourself, and know that with time and support, you will find a way to heal and move forward.



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